The Power of The Tongue and Ego
Proverbs 18:17-21
17 - He that is first in his own cause seemeth just; but his neighbour cometh and searcheth him.
18 - The lot causeth contentions to cease, and parteth between the mighty.
19 - A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city: and their contentions are like the bars of a castle.
20 - A man’s belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth; and with the increase of his lips shall he be filled.
21 - Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
There are several things that every one of us as humans must be careful of in life or it will cause us great grief. We need to be careful of our health, because we cannot neglect or abuse our bodies long and expect them to function properly. We cannot spend more than we make very long before we suffer the reality of oppressive debt. Nor can we let our ego and mouth go unchecked without causing great destruction in our wake. Every one of us has problems with our ego and our tongue, the issue is whether we are working on it or not. God’s Word addresses both of these issues from cover to cover. Either we are working on our pride or it is working on us. Either we are controlling our words or they are causing hurts to others and to our own selves. These matters are universal among humans throughout time. We all have an ego and if we are not careful it can get offended or puffed up causing us trouble. All of us find ourselves saying things that we know should not have been allowed out of our thoughts. God says that these matters are the same for us all. Every one of us has the power of life and encouragement in our words or the power of death and destruction. The only question is, which way will we choose to go with our words. We can be pleased and satisfied with the effect of our words or we can experience something far differently. Even if we work at using our words correctly and keep our ego in check, I have found that they can still cause us trouble. It is not too hard for any of us to see these flaws in others. The real problem is getting God’s help to see it in us. And that is where it really matters, because that is what we will give an account for unto the Lord. We each will answer to the Lord for our own pride and our own words, not for those of others.
